Being Real Is Hard?

We all feel like we want to be real at times. Just strip away the facade and let it all hang out. Then we remember our reputations. Let me ask you this? What does being real mean to you? 

Listen, at some point you have got to ask yourself who you are and where are you going? This is a time of reflection. Who can truly stop you from being real, the real you? No one but YOU. So when you are thinking about your reputation... your image... what is it YOU want people to remember most about you?

Do you want people to say that you were fake but thought you were the real deal? They may even say, S/he was a great person, just never really got who they truly were. I think we need to take a look in the mirror and strip away all the makeup and masks that we wear and be real.

What are we doing with our lives and in the end does it really matter?

Be Empowered

Coach Linda Hillman

Copyright 2010 Destined 2 B U Empowerment Coaching

When I say Move...Move

It is hard to make a decision, right? Is this something that you tell yourself? You want to do something you want to take advantage of an opportunity that presents itself to you but you have to make a decision to do it now. You have to look at the pros and cons.

So let me ask you this, if your life depended on you moving right now to make life better, would you have to think about it or would you just move.

If you are not willing to take a chance what does that say about you? What does that say about what you think about your life?

Sometimes, it just better to move. Just like that.

Be Empowered
Coach Linda Hillman
Copyright 2009 Destined 2 B U Empowerment Coaching

Are you Busy, Are you Busy, Brother John?

You remember the nursery song Are you sleeping, are you sleeping Brother John, Brother John?
Well, I changed the words to are you busy? Many people are busy going places, doing things and getting things done yet they seem to be standing still.

The question is this why are we so busy? What are we getting done. In a world where there are more and more opportunities to achieve your dreams and aspirations, we have more in poverty and struggling then ever before. Why is that I ask?

It is my personal opinion that we are so caught up in the hype of being busy that we forgot what productivity looks like. We have palm pilots, laptops, blackberry phones, iPhone, iPad and etc to help us stay ahead of what we have to do and schedule meetings about meetings. We have to get the last word in and it's has to be done right now. In the scheme of things most of what is important and truly needs to be a huge attention getters...is not getting much attention. There is a saying that the little foxes spoil the vine. We get caught up in the minors and the major things sort of get the butt of the stick.

We let the things that really matter sort of fall to the floor and get trampled by the minor things in life. Yes, sometimes it is needful to pay attention to the minor things but not at the sacrifice of losing your family, your friends, your job, your mind.

Take  a moment to stop and smell the roses and plan. Take someone you love out on a date and woe them. Leave your cell phone at home and take a walk. I guarantee you, that if you start taking time to enjoy life you will find that productivity comes much more easier.


Be Empowered
Coach Linda Hillman
Copyright 2012 Destined 2 B U Empowerment Group

Only Those That Can See The Invisible...

"Only those that can see the invisible, can achieve the impossible."

What exactly does this mean. Well, let's talk about your goals:

• Where are you headed? 
• What things are you trying to accomplish? 
• Are you settling or sacrificing?

Your answer to these questions will determine if you are seeing the invisible or making excuses because of the visible.

Many people want to be significant in their communities and relationships but they are not willing to put in the effort. Thus letting what they DO see hinder what could be. Now listen, I am not talking about "make-believe", or "faking it 'til you make it" stuff. I am talking about creating energy that will allow you to produce real success. This is the real raw deal. If you want to be something in your life then you have to let go of excessive baggage. You know that stuff you been carrying from your childhood, the love/hate relationships with parents, friends and other family members. The unforgiveness of those that hurt you, the self pity, self loathing, and EXCUSES.

Say this with me..."I am my worst enemy". You cant blame your failure or successes on any one but you. Either you did what you were suppose to do and succeeded or you didn't do what you were suppose to do and failed. The common denominator is YOU. So how do you get pass this? I am so glad that you asked that question. Here's how:

1. Stop making excuses and deal with the issues.
2. Have someone that you know will be brutally honest paint a word picture of you.
3. Once completed, pull out the things that need to be changed.
4. Follow someone that has the success you want to achieve or has a similar dream.
5. Start to eliminate toxic relationships and habits.

Start there and watch how much clarity comes to you. Remember only those that can see the invisible, can achieve the impossible. By the way, it is only impossible because no one else has done it. Therefore, get out there and do something.

Be Empowered
Coach Linda Hillman
Copyright 2009 Destined 2 B U Empowerment Coaching

What Would You Do If You Could Not Fail?

People are always stating that if they had this or that they would be better, have a better life or be further along in their journey. What I have found is that people just want to have things handed to them. They are not willing to fight for what they feel they deserve. However, we all have heard there is no such thing as a free lunch.

Think about it, even free items from companies...most time you have to pay for shipping and handling. What about the risk free offers, you pay for them up front and if you are for some reason not satisfied then you can get your money back. Even then, you have to ask for it back. Let's face it everything requires you to do something; which brings me back to the question, "What would you do if you knew that you could not fail?"

Don't just answer. Think about it. Think about your life (emotional, mentally, physically, socially, professionally, spiritually and financially). Each area has its own list of demands and needs, right. Each area makes up who you are (good or bad). So, what are your priorities? What do you feel; can make you complete and satisfied?

Nothing is easy in this world, some things are easier than others, but the real deal is how much are you willing to believe in you and your success? Here's the rub...

This question is a true statement, Why?

Well I am glad you asked, if you are going after your purpose with all your heart, soul, mind, body and strength..."failure is not an option". Now what are you willing to do?

Be Empowered
Coach Linda Hillman
Copyright 2009 Destined 2 B U Empowerment Coaching